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Thank you, Brian. It's a difficult distinction, but such a powerful reality.

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Just this week we bought the book Ferdinand and my daughter loves it! What a different perspective.

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I almost used a picture of the cover of that book for this post!

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Don't forget Jesus. He gets separated from his parents during a festival at the tender age of 12. You're in good company. ;)

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Yes! I actually thought about that. His parents were so anxious, but He was actually completely fine.

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How did your parents take it? I would have been terrified if it was my child. lol

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I don't even remember being reproved. My parents were wise and sensitive about when to correct me and when to let me learn my own lessons, though, and after all, I had handled it well and had made reasonable decisions about where to go, etc. Anthony and I also commonly wandered afar together when our families were visiting each other, so I think they knew that we would find them eventually.

That said, my mom was probably at least a little worried, but just hid it from me!

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your parents were wise. I strive to respond that way,

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Me, too. It's one of those things that you only appreciate after you become the parent: how personally hard it is to let your children grow.

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